What in the horse world is more fraught with difficulty than buying a horse? Maybe only the question of when to say goodbye.
Buying a horse is an enormous undertaking. Much more enormous, in its own way, than buying a house, even if the price tag is much lower (it is for most of us). For though we get attached to our houses, we know that although they may be a repository for our emotions, they have none of their own. They don’t love and long and feel pain, they don’t have eyes and a beating heart and touch our souls the way horses do.
Taking as our premise that buying a horse is an enormous undertaking and thus worthy of serious forethought, let us start with the first truth: there is no such thing as a perfect horse.
Now that in itself is no reason we shouldn’t try to buy the perfect horse. On the contrary, we should. But not the perfect horse in the abstract. The perfect horse for us. And not us in the abstract, either. Us in our true circumstances, whatever they might be.
I’d like to help. So that when it comes time for you to buy a horse (or pony) or your next horse, you won’t overlook some aspect of acting in your own best interest. If it’s your job, as it is mine, to help others buy a horse (or pony) or their next horse, you can know that you’re serving your clients’ needs as well as you can.
Horse shopping is a big and complicated task, like constructing a cathedral during the Middle Ages, mediating between corporations and Unions, or constructing new borders for old countries. There’s a lot to know, a lot you’ll never know, and a myriad of compromises along the way, all of which are distinct and specific to the parties involved (including the horse).
I’m going to try to examine (and at least touch upon) all the aspects of finding the right horse. I know I can’t do it all at once, in a single blog post, so this post is the first in a series. I don’t know yet how long the series will be, and I can’t promise that it will be sequential, but I hope you’ll find it useful and interesting and on occasion, entertaining.
To my mind, the single most important thing to look for when buying a horse is suitability. Suitability takes many shapes and sizes as one looks for an equine partner. More on that in Part II.
As someone who, two years later, is still wondering if Most Recent Horse Purchase was the Perfect Horse for Me, I’ll be quite interested in your analysis.
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Stay tuned. I’d love your feedback as the series progresses!
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I’m really looking forward to reading this – all being well I’m hoping to start looking for my first horse early in 2013 so I need all the advice I can get!
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That’s great. I’m here to help.
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My first horse was given to me. That was easy. He died, and in tears, I went to go look at my next horse a few days later. That’s not a good way to do it, but I bought 2-year-old “Satan” and changed his name to Cruiser. I still have him 23 years later. My third horse, I bred, so that was easy.
My fourth horse, I was going to do the right way. I went to a proper breeder, picked out a 4-year-old stallion who had never been ridden. Maybe I shouldn’t have gone looking for another horse just a few weeks after horse #3 died…Still, it worked out. Two years later, I am having the time of my life with him. I guess I’ve been lucky.
Judi
Author of “Trail Training for the Horse and Rider” and “Trail Horse Adventures and Advice”
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You’ve been lucky (even breeding). Good for you! If everyone were as lucky as you, I wouldn’t need to be writing this series.
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How serendipitous – I just started following this blog and am looking for my next mount (#3 as I have two 23-year-olds already)!
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Hi Lara Elizabeth — Thanks for joining in the discussion. I hope you enjoy the series and continue to contribute your thoughts!
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After my mare, Star, died from a ruptured cecum, it took me 6 years of half-hearted searching before I found my current wonder boy, Gabe. I tried and met several wonderful horses during that half-hearted search, but none of them “clicked” like Gabe did. When I saw him I immediately knew he was the one. Of course, it took me several days to make the decision and it was a decision that had to be made without a test ride because he was still on the track at the time….and test rides aren’t usually permitted on the track. I don’t know if it was luck or just trusting my gut feeling, but he has been perfect (even with his silly moments. )
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I’ve been lucky as well. My horse was very suited for me, but not 100% perfect at first glance. However, those non-fit areas are ones where I have been pushed to grow as a rider, which was my ultimate goal. Given he’s higher quality than I expected to buy for my money, he’s actually then beyond what I expected to find. (I wasn’t supposed to get a first dressage horse who would learn as easily as he does and show GP potential in a tendency to throw in GP movements if he wasn’t sure what he was being asked and decided to try!)
I am guessing your suitability discussion may take more than one more part in the buying a horse series!
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All you lucky ladies! And lucky horses to have you.
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