I was able to extend you a wonderful offer last Saturday and I have to thank Alex Brown for his generosity. I don’t have another offer that can compare but I’m still thinking about offers today…the kind of offers that horses make.
The most obvious example is horses offering us their hooves to pick. Personally, I like to pick all four hooves from the near side (racetrack style), and it’s what I ask of the horses whose feet I have to pick. I’ve found that, even if a horse is used to being on cross ties and having someone walk around him to pick up each hoof, a horse new to me will usually pick up my routine pretty quickly and start offering hooves in the order I want them.
It’s so much more pleasant to be able to accept the offer of a horse’s hoof in your hand than it is to demand it, don’t you think? I always find it surprising when I watch people grab a horse’s lower leg or try to yank a hoof off the ground or squeeze their fingers down the cannon bone, just to get a horse to lift its foot. Certainly, you have to do what you have do if a horse won’t help you out. The problem is when the horse is never given the chance to offer the behavior, so the offer can’t be appreciated by the person sharing his company.
That’s a truism that clicker trainers know very well, because clicker-trained horses offer up behaviors all the time.